So there I was, wanting to sell something on eBay. None of us could remember my wife’s password so we had to create a new account. And up came… the standard terms to click on. What do you do? You know these terms cannot be negotiated. eBay has millions of users and not enough bandwidth to negotiate standard terms with every individual, even if it wanted to – which of course it doesn’t. It doesn’t force you to sign the standard terms, but if you want to use the service you have no choice. This is an example of the power of having a “standard” on your side in a negotiation.
Standards can come from many different sources, a number of which I talk about in my new book about the modern art of negotiation, “The Yes Book” (out on Random House on 28th March and available for pre-order now on Amazon if you are interested). You may have legal precedent on your side or custom and practice, or, as in the case of eBay, a history of dealings on a standard basis with huge numbers of customers. eBay are not the only institutional supplier to enjoy this benefit – think of Banks and Insurance companies, too.
One good example from my own experience came from dealing with Locog, the administrative body set up to run the Olympic Games in 2012. Locog derived a lot of bargaining power from being the sole custodian of the use of the Olympic logo. Nobody else was able to use that “standard” without their permission.
You will no doubt have read of a number of examples of the power of commanding adherence to this standard. […]

